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Stay True To Yourself

Drewbie Wilson • July 27, 2022

"Never let anyone tell you that you need to change to fit in or be like them. Because you are perfect just the way you are."

Are you being true to yourself? Are you living your life the way you want to live it? Or are you living someone else's version of what they believe is the "right" way to live?


The only person who can answer these questions is you.


And only you can decide what is right for you. Otherwise, you will never be truly happy because you will always be living someone else's version of the truth.


It is an important question to ask because if you are not, you may be living a life that is inauthentic and unfulfilling.


And a great example of this is when Duder was invited to a birthday party for one of the girls at school. It was a princess-themed party at a store in the mall where they give the girls fancy dresses, and mini makeovers and put on a fashion show.


It was not the kind of place I would picture for little boys to have a great time, but Duder wanted to go, and we did not want to keep him from being part of it even though we had our concerns. When we showed up, he was very thrilled to see his friend and celebrate her birthday.


He did not care that everything in the store was pink and purple. And he did not care that it was six girls and two boys, one of which was probably a cousin of the birthday girl.


Duder had a blast, and so did we watching him have a great time. He put on this wicked gold jacket, get his hair colored crazy, and showed his support for his friend on her birthday. He complimented the girls, danced with them, took part in the fashion show, had fun, and did not care about anyone’s judgment or negativity.


Even though it was not our cup of tea, we are glad that Duder had such a great time.


And that was the moral of this story, you should always stay true to yourself. Just because something is not what you would normally do, or it does not fit into your comfort zone, does not mean that you should not do it.


Sometimes you have to just go for it, and we are glad that Duder did.


We are proud of him for staying true to himself, and not caring what other people think. We want him to always stay true to himself, no matter what situation he is in or who he is with. And we will always support him, no matter what.


I am very proud of my son for being himself, and I hope you are too because it is a very important thing.


Never be afraid of being different. Because the things that make you different are the things that make you special and it is always better to be yourself than to try and be someone else.


You are unique, so celebrate it! Embrace your quirkiness! Be proud of the things that make you different.


And never let anyone tell you that you need to change to fit in or be like them. Because you are perfect just the way you are.


And no matter what anyone says or what anyone thinks, always stay true to yourself.


You are the only one who knows what is best for you, and you should never let anyone else control your life because, at the end of the day, you are the only one who has to live with the decisions that you make.


So make sure that they are decisions that you are happy with, and that you know are best for you.


And remember, you are the only one who can make you happy, so do not put your happiness in someone else’s hands.


Be your own best friend, and always stay true to yourself!


Thank you for taking the time in reading my blog! I hope you find this article helpful and that you found some value in it. And if you enjoyed this article, please share it with others.


If you are tired of feeling stuck and looking to take the next step towards a better life for yourself, I invite you to check out my services. Together, we can work on identifying and changing any negative thought patterns that are holding you back from living your best life!


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Keep slaying and always remember, Crush The Day Before It Crushes You!

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