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Effective Ways To Give Feedback In The Workplace

Drewbie Wilson • November 5, 2022

"It is important to remember that feedback should be given in a way that is constructive and positive. It should not be used as a way to criticize or punish someone. And, it should always be given respectfully."

Have you ever had a boss who never gave you feedback? Or, have you ever worked with someone who always seemed to have something negative to say?


Giving feedback is an important part of any manager or leader's job and, when done correctly, can be an extremely effective tool for improving performance and communication.


But it is not always easy to do it effectively.


It is important to remember that feedback should be given in a way that is constructive and positive. It should not be used as a way to criticize or punish someone. And, it should always be given respectfully.


So, if you want to learn how to give feedback effectively, here are twelve effective tips to help you give feedback in a way that is helpful, positive, and productive:


* Avoid giving criticism that is vague or nonspecific

Make sure your feedback is clear and concise. Avoid general comments like "you need to do better" or "you are not meeting expectations." It must be specific enough so that the person receiving the feedback knows exactly what they need to work on.


* Critique the behavior, not the person

When critiquing someone's behavior, it is important to maintain a constructive perspective. For example, rather than saying "you are lazy," try "I noticed that you did not take the initiative to work on that project." It is important to avoid attacking the person and to focus on the behavior that you would like to see changed.


* Use "I" statements

When giving feedback, use "I" statements. For example, "I noticed that you did not take the time to proofread your report before you submitted it." This will help the other person feel like you are giving them feedback, rather than attacking them. And, it will help to keep the conversation focused on the behavior that you would like to see changed.


* Avoid using "you" statements

Using "you" statements is often seen as confrontational. For example, "You didn't do your job." It is important to avoid coming across as confrontational, as it will only make the other person defensive and less likely to listen to your feedback.


* Be aware of your tone

Your tone of voice can be just as important as the words that you use when giving feedback. Avoid sounding judgmental, condescending, or angry. Instead, try to sound supportive and positive.


* Be specific

When giving feedback, be as specific as possible. This will help the other person understand what they need to work on. For instance, "I noticed that you did not take the time to proofread your report before you submitted it" is more helpful than "you need to proofread your reports before you submit them."


* Avoid using "always" or "never"

Using absolutes like "always" or "never" is rarely helpful. For example, "you never proofread your reports before you submit them." These types of statements are usually not true and will only make the other person defensive. And, they will likely tune out any constructive feedback that you are trying to give.


* Be mindful of body language

Your body language can say a lot about how you are feeling. Avoid crossing your arms or rolling your eyes, as this can make the other person feel defensive. Instead, try to maintain open and positive body language because this will help the other person feel like they can trust you and listen to what you have to say.


* Use "sandwich" feedback

One effective way to give feedback is to "sandwich" it between two positive comments. For example, "I noticed that you did not take the time to proofread your report before you submitted it. I appreciate that you are willing to submit your work on time. In the future, if you could proofread your reports before you submit them, that would be great." This can help the other person feel like you are giving them constructive feedback without being too critical.


* Avoid giving too much feedback at once

It can be overwhelming to receive a lot of feedback at once. So, avoid bombarding the other person with too much information. Instead, focus on one or two points that you would like to make.


* Ask questions

Asking questions is a great way to get the other person to open up about how they are feeling and what they are thinking. For instance, "I noticed that you did not take the time to proofread your report before you submitted it. Can you tell me why you did not do that?" This can help you to understand the other person's perspective and to allow them to explain their actions.


* Follow up

After you give feedback, follow up with the other person to see how they are doing. This will show that you are interested in their progress and that you care about their development. And, it will allow you to see if your feedback was helpful and to make any adjustments if necessary.


Giving feedback can be difficult, but it is important to do it in a way that is helpful, positive, and productive.


By following these tips, you can give feedback that will be useful to the other person.


And remember, the goal is to help the other person improve, not to make them feel bad. So, focus on the positive and be constructive in your feedback. With a little practice, you will be giving feedback like a pro!


Thank you for taking the time to read my blog! I hope you find this information valuable and make time to implement it in your life. If you enjoyed this, please check back and share it with others.


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